Education : the only way to save innocence !

Here is a list of things you need to teach your Child(ren) at early age:

1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.

2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband'.

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values.

8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often.

10. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and thatincludes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of thecrowd.

13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it.

>Take up the case and show them you can defend them.

>Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be.

INSOMNIAC

  A restless soul, some unanswered questions, a few tears, the sound of silence, the shadows of the dark, bad memories of the past, a bad dream, an unfulfilled desire, the last goodbye....... 

All of the above are the reasons why i have insomnia!  

I so want to relive that time when i first felt love, stayed up all night thinking about her, blushed every time i saw her picture with me, loved the feel when my heart skipped beats as she touched me, loved my cell phone and loved all the late night talks that concluded only with the dawn, related to all the love songs, did not feel weird when things got mushy. Want to relive the FIRST TIME again, want to feel the magic again...But i know...that won’t happen the same way ever again...Once the dreams that were beautiful now wake me up as they have become nightmares. I hate it when i am alone in the house...  I can’t sleep in the nights...memories haunt me.., the bad ones. The one's that made me cry, the one's that changed me as a person, the one's that turned me into a paralyzed man once, the same one's that haunt me even today and every time manage to tear me apart. 

 I dream of all that i lived...you know, sometimes you scream and shout and ask people to believe you, sometimes you swear by every relationship that makes a difference just to prove the authenticity of each word, sometimes you beg and plead, sometimes you cry and sometimes you just put everything at stake just to prove how true you are, sometimes you let go because you don't see the point of any justification. Believe me...They shall fade away because I think I am ready to let them go. I need to break free and look at the brighter side of things. I think all of us should learn to let go, take a deep breath, and shed that last tear in the name of that bad memory and wake up to a morning of goodness. There is just too much that time can’t heal but its faith that keeps me going. How do you say good bye to a person you can't live without? I didn't say goodbye, I didn't say anythingI just walked away...

Too long...but I think I've just poured out a large chunk of what was weighing in my mind for long..

Only one person in the world knows what this is about..hope someday she reads it....       

I remember...she loved the rains...

She loved the rains..

The touch of rain-drops on her bare skin.

My lips drinking them dry.

I remember

how she sighed then.

The only other time she sighed like that was when

I whispered some Neruda to her.

She loved the rains......

I remember

when she sat next to me

On that rickshaw ride that rainy day,

and I covered us with an umbrella.

Her body shivered, with my touch.

I leaned down and licked those drops sliding down her neck.

I remember

how she sighed then.

The only other Time when she sighed like that was when

I whispered in her ear,”I love you princess...”

Her sparkling eyes with those missing eyelashes,

Looked at me and then looked down.

Her moist lips slowly mumbled but she bit them close.

I slowly placed my finger at that dimple on her cheek

I remember

how she blushed then..

I remember how we kissed in that rain...

I remember.... she loved the rains.....